So, then. What have I learned in the many months since March? I suppose I could formulate a list.
- I am not invincible
- There are limits to what I can do
- Not too many =p
- Hard work yields success
- Success is preceded by distress
- Friends and enemies often walk a blurred line
- I fail at adequately addressing every social situation
As I look again, I can't deem one more important than the other. Which leads me to one conclusion. All things the an individual experiences are life-altering. Each interaction with other people, every mistake, every speed-induced crash into jagged rocks has the potential to shape the course of your life, and more importantly the course of your mind. In my ONLY other blog post (at the writing of this) I speak a lot to introspection. I think a better, more associative word for that is reflection.
So, what? What point is there to this. If I were to name a lesson, more importantly than all things I've learned so far, it would be that reflecting upon successes, failures and works in progress is what makes us grow. As I've gotten older, I've found myself lying down at night to only think about the future, fantasize about what could be. I have also found myself stagnate, get boring for lack of a better term.
So is reflection what keeps us young? Is thinking about what we've done, and examining our experiences holistically the fountain of youth?
I guess it requires some reflection.
~Cheers =)
You lucky bastard...I wanted to reflect about a week ago, but I've been caught up in exams. I shall soon reflect and the day will be mine!
ReplyDeletei think looking back on what we've done is the only thing that keeps us sane. people sometimes try to deny it, but as our past experiences are so integral to who we become, as you mentioned, thus are they important in our self-image. whether it be looking back on good moments in our lives during bad ones, successful moments while at our lowest, etc. i know that i need to remind myself sometimes, that i know what i am capable of and that i can move forward. so reflextion to me i guess, is more of a fountain of growth, for without that, nothing can be learned or achieved.
ReplyDeletethough once again, i wrote that just now without really thinking too much. this kind of stuff requires face to face debate.